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Creating Believable and Memorable Parables and Stories

Parables and stories in your talks, especially if you create them, will aid the audience in understanding and remember your message. I am sharing with you one of my most favorite personal parables and how I created it. I’ve used … Continue reading

Show Don’t Tell Your Stories

One of the most valuable coaching tips I received as a TEDx speaker is to show, don’t tell, my stories. The Coach Kymberlee Weil of Strategic Samurai Speech Coaching I shared in a previous post my experience as a TedX Camarillo speaker, … Continue reading

Metaphorically Speaking with Images

Metaphorically Speaking with Images

Visuals can help us all better understand ideas, concepts, and emotions. Continue reading

Stir Emotions with Questions

Stir Emotions with Questions

As speakers, we want our audience to listen to us and EXPERIENCE what we are saying. Stir up emotions through questions! Use Questions to stir emotions. How about these, for starters? Romantic Warm, Cozy, Fuzzy Sad or distressed Embarrassment Happy … Continue reading

Audience Involvement Through Questions

Involve your Audience

Audiences who are involved in your talk can retain up to 90% of your message. I witnessed the most remarkable use of questions while participating in Harv Ekar’sMillionaire Mind weekend years ago. He kept an audience of approximately 2,000 people … Continue reading

Public Speaking and Eye Contact

public speaking and eye contact

An eye can threaten like a loaded and leveled gun; or can insult like hissing and kicking; or in its altered mood by beams of kindness, make the heart dance with joy.  -Ralph Waldo Emerson Mr. Emerson’s eloquent statement expresses … Continue reading

How to Speak like a King

speak like a king

The “I Have A Dream” speech stands as a hallmark of inspirational and motivational speeches. Imagine the weight that lay upon Dr. Martin Luther King while preparing his speech for almost a quarter million people who gathered for the Civil … Continue reading

What Trains Dogs can Train You in the Use of Powerpoint

What Trains Dogs can Train You in the Use of Powerpoint

Advancing through PowerPoint slides without any awkwardness is a worthy goal for any presenter. Here is a surprisingly easy, inexpensive, and extremely effective way to achieve that.     My business partner and friend, Circe Denyer, is a TEDx coach. … Continue reading

Is Your Belly Button Showing When You Speak?

belly-button-speaking

As speakers, we don’t want anything to distract our audience from our talk.  How about your belly button?  Is your belly button showing when you speak? A retired Hollywood costume designer surprised us with feedback about visible belly buttons!  Tight-fitting … Continue reading

Hand Gestures of Opera Singers

Hand Gestures of Opera Singers

We can learn a thing or two by watching the hand gestures of opera singers. The Aria I was watching “The Devil’s Violinist” movie about one of the most famous violinists of all time – Paganini. Boy, talk about playing … Continue reading

Speaking from the Heart

Speaking from the Heart

Recently I was reminded of an essential truth about speaking. We want to be speaking from the heart. The important reminder about speaking from the heart happened during a meeting where participants were practicing their “core idea” speeches with the … Continue reading

Check Plan for Speaking Success

Check Plan for Speaking Success

Here is a handy one-minute check plan for speaking success The “Pocket Cards for Speakers” created by Jacob M. Braude are a great resource for speakers.  They are out of print but they available from various booksellers online.  There are six … Continue reading